As we grow up, and we want to improve ourselves, we look at who we are and what our weaknesses are. We tend to focus on that and try to improve those. However, in most cases, we are already strong enough to overcome any obstacle by working on improving what is already strong. It is easier and more fun to become better at something you are already good at doing. If you wake up in the morning dreading what your weaknesses are and working on improving that, you tend to not work as hard. If you wake up in the morning and know you are already good at something and you just want to get better, you tend to do it with more enthusiasm.
Recently, a client of mine realized she had strength for meeting one-on-one, in person. She felt a weakness was her phone calling conversations. She said that she was working on getting better at feeling comfortable talking on the phone. I suggested she work on getting in front of more people face to face, have many appointments at one location like a co
